The past 10 days have been tough. News of my sister in law's pregnancy nearly broke me. My parents can't understand why I am so upset. It's hard to explain. The timing, with the most recent pregnancy loss just a week before, and the harsh reminder of the losses that have gone before that whilst … Continue reading Moving


I've been working in Tokyo most of the past 3 weeks. Only one of those weeks was planned and the two other visits were last minute trips. By the third visit I felt totally frazzled and burnt out. A combination of overnight flights (it's 7 hours from Singapore to Tokyo), 80 hour work weeks, a … Continue reading Pause